When people think about putting on a mask to go out, many think about themselves.
Will I look stupid?
Will I look weak or afraid?
Does this dumb thing even protect me?
The key thing to remember is that itβs not about yourself β itβs about helping other people.
Especially, itβs about protecting people like Cecilia Nichols, age 11. She lives in Tucson and has cystic fibrosis, a serious disease that makes her lungs vulnerable to COVID-19 and other respiratory illness. Her sister, Jolene, died of it in December 2017.
The spread of respiratory viruses can be a life-or-death issue for vulnerable people. They are mostly staying inside, sure, but they canβt be perfectly insulated. Why wouldnβt we help to protect them as the pandemic seeps through society?
βItβs such a simple way for people to contain their potential infection,β Ceciliaβs mother, Anna, said. βItβs just a considerate thing for everyone to do.β
And yet, as you undoubtedly know by now, the wearing of masks has become a flashpoint along our usual cultural divide.
Among the objections Iβve heard to people wearing masks in public places, they tend to be versions of these three:
- Itβs a form of social control.
- Itβs a sign of fear or weakness.
- It doesnβt actually work.
No one wants to inconvenience ourselves for no reason, so whether wearing masks really works is a worthwhile question. And the answer, while not globally unanimous, is a clear yes. It does work if you are going to be in a situation, especially indoors, where you canβt keep a minimum 6-foot distance from others.
It helps even just to wear cloth coverings over your mouth and nose.
Many people have pointed out that the virus is so small that it would easily fit through the weaving of a typical cotton fabric. A popular internet meme compares wearing a mask to stop a virus with putting up a chain link fence to stop mosquitoes. The idea is both can pass through easily.
Thatβs wrong, though.
Dr. Bob England, Pima Countyβs interim health director, explained: βWhen you cough or sneeze, youβre not spraying out free-floating little viral particles. Itβs sputum and snot and spit, and the virus is traveling on those droplets.β
Those droplets are plenty big to be caught by most cloth coverings, let alone surgical masks and other coverings with tighter weaves.
βIf youβre certain you can keep your social distance, especially outdoors, then it probably doesnβt add any protection,β England said. βIf youβre going to be in an environment where you canβt guarantee your distance, then wear one β not for yourself, but just in case youβre one of those asymptomatic carriers.β
A large portion of people infected with the virus donβt have current symptoms, testing surveys have shown. The asymptomatic proportion could be 20% to 50% at any given time. If everyone infected were symptomatic, masks wouldnβt be necessary: Sick people could just stay home.
But any of us might be asymptomatic carriers. That fact alone is why we should mask up in public indoor spaces without dependable distancing. It is to protect other people.
Not everyone can wear a mask. Some people on the autism spectrum, or with severe anxiety, or with breathing problems or other health issues shouldnβt wear them. Thatβs OK.
For most of us, though, wearing a mask is a small sacrifice to help others. Yet some people have taken to view it as a social imposition.
Iβve heard several stories of people who oppose masks confronting mask-wearing people to say they are paranoid, as well as a few of mask-wearing people demanding others wear masks.
In late April, Tucsonan Corinne Cooper walked to the post office on East River Road after closing time, she told me via Facebook.
βJust as I got to the PO, this guy swooped in behind me on a bicycle. I asked him to please wait outside until I mailed my letter. Instead he followed close behind me and started shouting and waving his arms, saying, βOooh scary! Scary!βββ
Anna and Cecilia Nichols had a similar experience on a rare escape from the house to Mount Lemmon, where they were wearing masks and trying to stay apart from other people, Anna Nichols said. A man made sure they heard his comment about how they were βliving in fear.β
Think about that: A grown man ignorantly telling a girl with cystic fibrosis she is living in fear. This sort of pervasive ignorance gives reason for vulnerable people to fear.
Men seem to be having an especially hard time with the mask idea. They will tell you itβs that they donβt want to be told what to do, or that itβs a sign of so-called experts and government trying to exercise social control.
In that context, not wearing a mask becomes a sort of perverse virtue. It is what some have taken to calling βvice-signaling,β the opposite of βvirtue signalingβ β an effort to show you wonβt follow the rules, that youβre politically incorrect.
Itβs ridiculous. For many men, the real problem is they are scared β scared of looking weak. Scared of looking scared. Ironically, that fear in itself is a weakness.
Thereβs a form of masculinity thatβs selfish β men who take what they want without regard. And there is a form of masculinity that is selfless β men who give to others, especially the vulnerable, without regard. Wearing a mask represents the latter form of masculinity β protective. If it helps, men should think of a mask like they think of a gun, as a tool to defend the vulnerable.
You can see why many men, especially on the political right wing, have embraced the selfish form, though. Thatβs the modeling they have seen from the president, who has given mixed messages about the seriousness of the epidemic and never, ever will be seen wearing a mask in public.
Even Gov. Doug Ducey, a Republican who has been more consistent than Trump on virus response, has stumbled in modeling masks. He is never seen with one on in public, something that Dr. Randy Friese, a Democratic Tucson legislator, criticized when I spoke with him Friday on the Bill Buckmaster Show.
βGov. Ducey should wear a mask every time heβs in public, every time heβs in a room with people who are then going to go out and see other people,β said Friese, who is a surgeon. βWe should be modeling a message.β
The message is simple: Wearing a mask is not for you at all, but a small sacrifice you make to protect other people, like an 11-year-old with a lung disease whose sister has already died.
The message is: Be selfless, not selfish.
Photos: 20+ famous people who came to Tucson
From Ernest Hemingway toΒ Betty White, here are some times famous people visited Tucson in decades past, with photos from archives of the Arizona Daily Star and Tucson Citizen.
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Joe Namath and Ann-Margaret
New York Jets quarterback Joe Namath, left, and actress Ann-Margaret arrived at Tucson International Airport on April, 10, 1970, and were gree…
Ralph Nader
Famous consumer advocate Ralph Nader speaks at the University of Arizona in 1979.Β
Nat "King" Cole
Singer and entertainer Nat "King" Cole and Arizona Gov Ernest W. McFarland exchange autographs while at the Tucson Municipal Airport on May 3,…
John F. Kennedy
Senator John F. Kennedy at the Sunday Evening Forum, sponsored by the Catalina Methodist Church in Tucson on Feb. 24, 1958. Kennedy spoke befo…
Eleanor Roosevelt
Eleanor Roosevelt at the Arizona Sonora Desert Museum in 1958.Β
James Arness
Actor James Arness from the "Gunsmoke" television series, compares boot sizes with Texas Ranger Capt Clint Peoples while in Tucson on January …
Isaac Stern
Violin virtuoso Isaac Stern tuning his violin in April 1979. He performed in a benefit recital for the Tucson Symphony Society.Β
Herbie Hancock
Jazz innovator, writer, performer Herbie Hancock played for 1,300 people at the Temple of Music and Art in 1979.Β
George H.W. Bush
Ambassador George H.W. Bush speaks at a press conference at the Arizona Inn in 1973. Bush was U.S. President during the First Gulf War.Β
Betty White
On May 3, 1988, Betty White visited the Reid Park Zoo while filming a television promotion for the Tucson Zoological Society. Above, Steve McC…
Garry Marshall
Hollywood television producer, Garry Marshall in Tucson, in 1979. He wrote and produced the TV series "Happy Days" and "Mork and Mindy."
Errol Flynn
Errol Flynn in Tucson for a Tucson Press Club event. Date Unknown.Β
Duke and Duchess of Windsor
The Duke and Duchess of Windsor from Great Britain arrive in Tucson for a stay at the Arizona Inn on March 1, 1959.Β
Bob Hope
Hollywood star Bob Hope trying to get the upper hand with an extra long bat during Cleveland Indians Spring training in Tucson on March 5, 194…
Billy Joel
The "Piano Man," Billy Joel, performs at the Tucson Community Center on November 14, 1978.
Diana Ross
Diana Ross performing at McKale Center on October 3, 1983.
Ansel Adams
Legendary landscape photographer Ansel Adams talks to an interviewer during his Tucson visit in 1983. UA's Center for Creative Photography is …
Ernest Hemingway and Waldo Peirce
Writer Ernest Hemingway with longtime friend and notable painter, Waldo Peirce, in the Baghdad Room at the Tucson Inn in Tucson, Ariz., on Mar…
Billy Idol
Rock star Billy Idol made an appearance at the Tucson Community Center Arena on May 5, 1987. Opening for Idol that night was The Cult.Β
