Itβs a big decision, choosing where to go to college.
Presumably, it affects every aspect of oneβs life: where they live, their profession and their social circles. Not many 14-year-olds are equipped to make that call.
βThe recruiting process in itself is very difficult for young kids,β UA coach Mike Candrea said. βThere are parents that do a really good job of sifting through some of the layers, making sure itβs a good fit academically, athletically, socially. βIs this a place that I want my daughter to be at, and will she be taken care of?β There are so many things.β
As fifth-year senior pitchers Alyssa Denham and Mariah Lopez head into their final college games, they are reminded of the road to the UA. Neither started their college career in Tucson, but neither regrets their previous stop.
Alyssa Denham, from a small town on the outskirts of Houston, Texas, chose Louisiana Lafayette, a small-conference softball powerhouse. She won Sun Belt Conference Freshman of the Year in 2017 with a 15-2 record and a 2.27 ERA but decided it wasnβt the right fit. Since, Denham has played a key role in Arizonaβs pitching staff, even pitching a complete game in the victory that punched Arizonaβs ticket to the Womenβs College World Series in 2019.
βI did commit early, but I actually committed to a different school than (ULL),β Denham said. βI have no regrets of going to Louisiana-Lafayette at all. That place and that coaching staff allowed me to grow to be able to make it here. I always say if I came to Arizona as a freshman, I donβt think I would have done very well.
βHonestly, if I could tell myself something that I wish I knew back then it would be to βchase your dreams and the sky is the limit. Your hard work and dedication will give you everything you need to be successful.ββ
Lopezβs journey from Southern California was a little different. For three years, she was at the apex of the college softball world with Oklahoma. She compiled a 51-2 record and a 1.61 ERA, pitching in both the 2017 WCWS Championship Series win over Florida and the 2019 loss to UCLA.
As the 11-seed Wildcats (36-13, 12-10) prepare for the postseason, starting with this weekendβs NCAA regional featuring UMBC, Villanova and Ole Miss, both of their experiences will prove invaluable. Theyβve also provided a chance to reflect on why each chose Arizona and what they learned from making their first college recruitment decision.
βI didnβt really know myself as a 14-year-old,β Lopez said. βI have a sister thatβs the same age, 14, to think about her making that decision is insane.
β(I would say) to just take the chance to sit and figure out what I wanted, versus what I felt everyone else wanted. Thatβs not the situation that Iβm dealing with, but just in general, if I could go and give advice to anyone who is 14 years old, not just myself.β
While they were in college, the NCAA passed new rules prohibiting softball coaches from extending verbal offers until after their sophomore year. Before this, it was common for players to be committed as early as middle school, and an NCAA study found that 49% of Division I softball players had at least one offer during or before their sophomore season.
But even with these new restrictions, coaches recognize it can still be difficult.
βItβs a difficult decision to make even when youβre 18. Itβs never easy to say that this is where my future is,β Candrea said. βA lot of it is because they donβt have enough information. They tend to look at things that are irrelevant in allowing them to be successful and happy with their college career. Kids will go to a football game. Well, theyβre not coming here to play football so who cares what football is like. What do we have as far as softball is concerned?β