As a survivor of domestic abuse, I recognize that domestic violence is a problem for each of us and all of us — regardless of age, gender, socio-economic status, political or religious view. What must we do to stop this culture of domestic violence?1) We must speak up when we see acts of domestic violence. 2) We must teach that the need to control others is the root of domestic violence. We must teach self-control. 3) We must stop the shame, guilt, and stigmatization of victims. 4) We must have empathy for victims and abusers. 5) We must shed the “knight in shining armor” and “hero” myths.
When we recognize that we can trust others, and we release the need for controlling others, we will be on our way to a happier, healthier Tucson.
Felicia Chew
Midtown
