Talk about your long-awaited encores â it has taken Melissa Etheridge's 21 years to return to a Tucson stage.
Her last Tucson concert was in 1992 â three years after she had initially introduced herself with her rough-hewn, chicks-with-guitars-style driving rock.
She was supposed to return in 2004, but her tour that year was canceled when she was diagnosed with breast cancer.
On Saturday, she finally returns to open UApresentsâ 2013-14 season.
âItâs way too long,â Etheridge said during a recent phone interview from her home in California, promising that her show Saturday will be worth the long wait. âIf youâre ready, Iâm ready. We can do it.â
Etheridge comes to us with a renewed sense of herself. She said she is âbetter, happier and healthier than Iâve ever been.â
âIâm loving when I play. Iâm loving touring. Iâm just having a great time,â she nearly gushed.
For the first time in years, she is happy in her personal life, she allowed. She and her girlfriend of more than three years are engaged and sheâs knee deep in the final phase of a career retrospective box set, due out next year.
We caught up with Etheridge to talk about the box set, her 25-plus-year career and what the recent Supreme Court ruling striking down the federal Defense of Marriage Act means to her.
Can you believe itâs been 25 years?
âNo. Thatâs the craziest thing.â
How are you going to winnow your 25 years into a box set?
âIt has been so unbelievably, enormously crazy to try to do that. I keep telling people I feel like Iâm trying to land a dirigible (a blimp). dirigible, which is a blimp It is just so massive. Finally, I am in the last phases. OK, Iâve got to cut it down a little bit more, just got to make it a little more concise because there is so much material. So many demos, tracks that never got on (any of my) 12 albums. Itâs quite a fun undertaking.â
This doesnât sound like a greatest hits package. Sounds like you are curating your entire career.
âOh yes, Thatâs exactly whatâs going on. I have a greatest hits record and anyone who would really want to buy this sort of deep thing, I want to give them things they have never, ever heard: The first album (which Island Def Jam never released), the album before the first album, the tracks from 1980 that sound like itâs from 1980. âĻ Some of them I think are really good songs that Iâm happy to finally be releasing to the fans who might enjoy them.â
Are you slipping those gems into your live shows?
âI have been doing one every now and then. But by the time I get to Tucson, I might be doing another one, yeah.â
Did you have an approach from the outset on what you would and would not include?
âNo, I just had a âGee, do I think itâs good enough? Do I think the fans will enjoy this?â Itâs fun thinking of it not as what will be a radio hit, but as this is for those who have enjoyed my music for the last 25 years and really want something deep. Thatâs the real joy about it.â
Are you including songs that you might not really like yourself but your fans might see a different side of you in them?
âOh yeah. A couple things where people will go, âWell I see why she didnât put it on (another album), but thatâs interesting.ââ
Will the album include duets?
âOne CD is covers, one is live and on those I do duets with some folks. I have the duet with Bruce Springsteenbruce springsteen doing âThunder Road.â A couple surprises that I still have to see whether I can put them on. Mostly itâs tracks that didnât make it or live things that werenât available or stuff people havenât heard.â
So are these all-new recordings?
âNo, there are recordings from the 1980s. Every album I did, those two songs that didnât make it on â really good quality album songs â Iâm releasing them.â
Your music has always been very personal and reflecting where you are in your life. Where are you these days?
âThatâs been the most surprising. So much of my career was the heartbreak, the pain and the âOh, the struggleâ. But after breast cancer, I said, âWait a minute. I want to write about my heart, what Iâm going through.â The last three albums have been life journeys. Love, falling in love again. Passionate things. I have much passion in my life right now. Happiness, health, curiosity, dreams â those are the things Iâm writing about.â
Your 2012 album, â4th Street Feeling,â had so much optimism, which was something you didnât really express early in your career.
âWell I have a nice, light, airy optimism about me now. I certainly hope you donât hear the broken-hearted Melissa any more because I donât want to be that any more.â
Is there something musical that you havenât done that is still on your bucket list?
âI want to do more movies. I want to write a musical. Oh gosh, thereâs all kinds of things.â
Your first stab at writing a song for a movie won you an Academy Award.
âYes. Thatâs awesome. You canât ask for better than that.â
You and your girlfriend, sitcom writer Linda Wallem, are getting married now that California is once again allowing same-sex marriages. How has the Supreme Court ruling impacted California?
âOh my gosh, there are so many weddings everywhere. Itâs beautiful. It so turned us upside down. In California, we like to think of ourselves as so progressive, so out there in front of everybody. But to sort of have a national disgrace. Iowa, for heavenâs sake, passed gay marriage. So when that happened there was a shadow over us. I think we finally felt like OK, we believed in this enough. We took it all the way to the Supreme Court and itâs gone.â
What kind of message does the Supreme Court action send to other states that donât have same-sex marriage, like Arizona?
âI think the greatest message is weâre moving into our future of freedom, of diversity and how our diversity will make us strong. Not being afraid of those who we consider different. Weâre going to totally judge every person on the content of their character and not anything else. Thatâs a beautiful country to be in. I want to be there. I think every state will eventually get there, and it has to do with the gays themselves willing to be out even when itâs not the easiest thing. âĻ People know gay people and they are not the strangers any more.â
For years you were the brave one that stepped out first.
âAs my friend Steven Spielberg Steven Spielberg says, âSomeoneâs got to lie down on the barbed wire.â And we just were like, âOK, weâll do it.â (Being the first female rocker to come out) was the greatest thing I ever did. Iâm so proud that I have chosen to be myself because it enabled me to live a totally relaxed life.â
Your openness about your lifestyle doesnât seem to have produced any professional backlash.
âI went from selling under a million records to over 6 million after I came out. No, it never hurt me. Back then it was very new. I am very happy to have been part of it.â
Whatâs your idea of the perfect wedding?
âOne where my friends and family are around me and I marry Linda and itâs just a nice event, not a big thing. Something real simple and one that declares love.â
Since we havenât seen you in Tucson in 21 years, what can we expect Saturday?
âI feel like Iâve just been working on the best set list for the last 25 years and thatâs what Iâve been making my albums for. The show now consists of those solid hits that people love, that people know, that I love playing. And Iâm always leaving some space open for those deep album tracks âĻ And thereâs a couple of songs from the new album. Put together it is over two hours of rock and roll. And Iâm playing a lot more guitar than I used to and Iâm loving that.â
Where do you summon up that kind of energy?
âThatâs the health part of it. I am healthier since breast cancer. I learned that I am what I eat; itâs all about the food that I eat. I am glutton-free, dairy-free and sugar-free. I eat whole foods and that gives me energy, and Iâm always sure I sleep enough and drink lots of water. And I exercise.â



