Canyon del Oro High School freshman Lainey Wilderson didnβt always imagine herself on a volleyball court.
She grew up a dancer, becoming a company dancer in just about every style β jazz, ballet, tap and ballroom.
But by the time she had hit her tweens, she had fallen out of love with dance.
Desperate to find that spark once again, she looked for anything that would bring that passion back.
So, she tried almost every sport she could think of, including volleyball, softball and soccer, but nothing gave her the feeling that volleyball did.
βItβs like I get this rush and I feel so good when Iβm playing,β she said. βI feel confident and Iβm with my people who understand me and I could just let all of my feelings go as soon as I step into any gym.β
She may only have two years of volleyball experience under her belt, including with her club team, Cactus Juniors Volleyball Club, but sheβs already a force to be reckoned with on the court.
Canyon del Oroβs Lainey Wilderson reaches over to help return a blocked Falcon spike in a match against Catalina Foothills, Oct. 29.
Throughout her first high school varsity year as a middle blocker, she has logged a .269 hitting percentage and earned a top-five spot in the 5A conference, as well as the No. 19 ranking in the state (out of all grade levels) for blocks (86). MaxPreps also lists her as the No. 1 freshman blocker in Arizona for total blocks.
Prep Dig, a high school volleyball-focused site, currently ranks Wilderson No. 37 in the state for the freshman class and No. 7 in her position as a middle blocker.
With only one season in, CDO head varsity girls volleyball coach Jose Robles can see Wilderson becoming one of the teamβs standout players in the next few seasons.
βSheβs definitely already making a name for herself,β Robles said. βSheβs going to be turning heads. Sheβs going to be one of the few studs we have on this team that people are going to be afraid of when playing us, maybe even next year, but definitely when sheβs a junior and senior. People are going to be referring to her when they got to scout us out and sheβs going to be a big factor for us. Sheβs going to play a huge role as she continues her volleyball career.β
Canyon del Oroβs Lainey Wilderson, right, and teammate (and former Arizona Daily Star Student-Athlete of the Week) Rilynn Brown celebrate the Doradoβs come-from-behind 3-1 win over 5A Sonoran foe Catalina Foothills.
This yearβs Dorados varsity volleyball team includes six sophomores and two freshmen, including 14-year-old Wilderson. Robles says the team is young and also in the midst of a rebuild year.
The Dorados are currently No. 13 in the state with a 12-6 record. All spots preceding CDO are Phoenix-area high schools, according to the latest AIA rankings. Their overall record is 16-14.
Despite being in a rebuilding phase, the team is working through the growing pains, and Wilderson has been leading the charge on staying positive this season β win or lose.
βWeβve had matches where theyβve been tough losses,β Robles said. βBut what Iβve been really appreciative of this team and these younger kids is, they could have easily been like, βWe lost a tough match, weβre done.β But, no, these girls want to just keep fighting. And especially, Lainey has been at the forefront of βIβm going to keep working hard. Iβm going to keep moving forward.ββ
Through all the hurdles, volleyball has become an outlet for Wilderson.
Canyon del Oro middle blocker Lainey Wilderson, poses for a photo prior to the Doradoβs home match against Catalina Foothills, Oct. 29, in Tucson.
When her beloved dog Daisy died earlier this season, Wilderson was devastated to say the least. She found herself crying at nearly every practice and it was difficult to find a new routine without Daisy.
Even as time goes by, she still gets emotional talking about her.
Although she was still grieving, volleyball helped her shift her focus.
βIt gave me really nice distractions,β she said. βI feel like every time I step onto a court, all of my worries just go away. So, it was kind of like a break from the world for a bit and it was really nice.β
Other elements in her life that keep her balanced are her faith and family.
Before every game, she takes a moment to pray with her teammates. Itβs a simple gesture, but a meaningful one for Wilderson.
βThat always just makes me feel so much better,β she says. βAnd knowing that God has my back while I play and Heβs always here for me. I have Bible verses written on both my shoes, just to remind me when I need a reset, that I have a foundation that I can go back to.β
Canyon del Oroβs Lainey Wilderson, right, rises up to block a spike from Catalina Foothillsβ Julia Stingelin during a 5A Sonoran match, Oct. 29.
Along with her faith, Wildersonβs family also plays a huge role in her foundation.
When sheβs not on the court or in school, Wilderson spends most of her time hanging out with her family.
Each week, Wilderson and her family hop in the family car and take a drive to Dairy Queen, where they get ice cream and chat about each of their weeks.
Whether itβs a good week or a bad one, itβs something she looks forward to weekly.
βMy family has a huge role in supporting who I am and making me just the person I am, too,β she said.
While she may only be a freshman in high school, she already has an idea of what she wants to do after she graduates in 2029: attend a college thatβs close to home and become a pediatrician.
With only seven more semesters to go as a Dorado, Wilderson is on the right track to serve up success in the classroom and on the court.
βIβve been so blessed with these underclassmen that have come into CDO,β Robles said. βItβs been super nice because theyβre all about changing the culture for the better, and just keep improving the culture. And Lainey is just one of those down-to-earth kids thatβs always smiling, always happy, and she tries her best even if sheβs struggling. She goes the extra mile to make sure her teammates know βIβm still here for you.β β¦
βItβs really great to have a kid like that because she just adds to the team. Sheβs just so beneficial for us in terms of attitude and competitiveness and just being able to be the ideal teammate for the other players out there.β
Fast Five with Lainey
Whatβs your pregame ritual?
I really like praying. Thatβs one thing I really would do and I always like to have two AirPods in while I warm up. I like to listen to my worship music, just to kind of get me focused and in the mindset and just feeling myself. So, I normally do that, and then I like to warm up my arms for a really long time. So, if I donβt get that, I always feel like Iβm just zoned out.
If you could play with any volleyball player in the world, who would it be?
Thereβs this middle at Nebraska whoβs really good. Her nameβs Andi Jackson and sheβs one of my biggest inspirations.
What are three things that are always in your gym bag?
I have shoe powder to make my shoes smell good. I always carry it because I hate smelling bad. I hate it. Then I always have a bunch of Band-Aids because I pick at my fingers when I get nervous and then Iβll bleed, and then I have to get Band-Aids for it. So, I always have to carry a bunch of Band-Aids for that. And I have a mini Jesus in my backpack, a mini plastic Jesus that I keep in each of my bags. And itβs just yet again, another reminder that Heβs always with me.
Whatβs your Dairy Queen order?
I get their chocolate strawberry blizzard. Itβs so good. Itβs strawberry ice cream and then it has chocolate chunks in it and itβs so good.
Whatβs your current favorite class?
History. I really like learning about our past and everything thatβs happened and it just sticks with me. I think about it a lot and itβs my best class. I always do great on the tests in there. Itβs just great. I love it.



