Dorothy Dyer Vanek once joked that whenever she got a lunch invite from a Tucson conductor it came with an ask.

But Eric Holtan, one of those conductors who regularly lunched with the longtime classical music patron, said sometimes lunch was just lunch.

The True Concord Voices & Orchestra music director would pick her up at her Splendido apartment and they would head to Vanekโ€™s favorite Oro Valley restaurant Caffe Torino.

If it was breakfast, she would order the blueberry pancakes. For lunch, it had to be grilled cheese with bacon and tomato โ€” an off-the-menu request that she made so often the restaurant dubbed it the โ€œDorothy Special.โ€

Over those meals, Holtan would sit back and listen as Vanek recounted her life, growing up in St. Louis, Missouri, falling in love with classical music in grade school and watching youth concerts put on by her hometown orchestra. She took that love with her in adulthood as she and her late husband Robert Vanek, an airlines executive, traveled and lived all over the world.

โ€œShe had a very interesting, well-traveled life and she had endless stories that she would tell,โ€ Holtan recalled days after Vanek died on March 25. She was 93.

โ€œI went on many lunches, breakfasts with her and I did a lot of listening. She had fun and interesting things to say,โ€ added Holtan. โ€œNot every lunch and breakfast was an ask.โ€

Truth be told, Vanekโ€™s selfless generosity likely saved Tucson classical music in the financial downturn following 9/11. She provided tens of thousands in regular donations to the Tucson Symphony Orchestra, True Concord and the volunteer Southern Arizona Symphony Orchestra, allowing them to keep the music going and ride out the financial storm.

โ€œI had a lot of fun getting to know her,โ€ recalled George Hanson, whose relationship with Vanek goes back to the early days of his 20-year tenure as Tucson Symphony Orchestraโ€™s music director and continued when he became coordinator of the Tucson Desert Song Festival in 2015. โ€œShe was full of life and she was full of pleasure as she watched her gifts transform organizations.โ€

But it was what she did beyond the regular annual checks that transformed these organizations, allowing them to take artistic chances that have paid impressive dividends.

Vanek picked up True Concordโ€™s $50,000 tab to commission nationally known composer Stephen Paulus in 2011 to pen the 9/11 anniversary oratorio โ€œPrayers and Remembrances.โ€ She also underwrote $100,000 to send the group to New York City to perform the piece at Carnegie Hall and $75,000 to their Grammy-nominated CD, โ€œFar In the Heavens โ€” Choral Music Of Stephen Paulus.โ€ The album didnโ€™t win, but Paulus won a Grammy for best contemporary classical composition for โ€œPrayers and Remembrances.โ€

She attended the Grammys ceremony with Holtan and when Paulusโ€™s widow accepted the award on her husbandโ€™s behalf โ€” Paulus died in 2014 โ€” Vanek cried.

โ€œThatโ€™s the only time I saw Dorothy cry,โ€ Holtan recalled.

Vanek believed that โ€œFar in the Heavensโ€ was just the beginning of what True Concord was capable of, so when Holtan asked her in 2016 to be a part of the ensembleโ€™s ambitious five-year recording and commissioning project, she kicked in $500,000 and her blessings. The Dorothy Dyer Vanek Fund for Excellence has produced two new compositions to date and one recording, last yearโ€™s โ€œChristmas With True Concord: Carols in the American Voice.โ€ The album reached No. 5 on Billboardโ€™s traditional classical albums chart.

Next January, True Concord will perform the world premiere of another Vanek Fund commission by American composer Jocelyn Hagen to commemorate the centenary of womenโ€™s suffrage in America.

โ€œI thought it would be a wonderful project that they could do,โ€ Vanek said at the time. โ€œThey discovered that they can do it. When we did the Paulus event we brought things together, but they also found out that they were capable of doing that. They won the Grammy. It was quite a thrill to win.โ€

Vanekโ€™s contributions to SASO changed the dynamic of the 40-year-old orchestra. In addition to sponsoring the orchestraโ€™s season for the past 13 years, she also was the lead backer of tours to China and Brazil, and was a major sponsor of the orchestraโ€™s performances the past four years with the San Luis Potosรญ Opera Festival in Mexico.

โ€œIf it wasnโ€™t for her I donโ€™t think we would be where we are today,โ€ said SASO Music Director Linus Lerner, who estimated his volunteer orchestra received hundreds of thousands of dollars from Vanek over the years, including sponsoring the ensembleโ€™s recording of โ€œCelebration,โ€ a CD of Tucson composers works. โ€œIt all started with Dorothy.โ€

โ€œShe was very kind,โ€ Lerner added. โ€œI admired her a lot. She always gave me this feeling that it was so important to give, so important to share what she had.โ€

TSO Music Director Josรฉ Luis Gomez, in a message posted on the TSOโ€™s website, recalled the first time he met Vanek and her second husband, Robert Carroll, when he started his tenure in 2016.

โ€œImmediately I was captivated by their wonderful life stories. She was so warm-hearted and supportive from day one โ€” and moreover, so passionate and loyal in supporting the arts in Tucson,โ€ he said. โ€œIt is a great loss for this community and we all owe her generosity and love. She will be greatly missed.โ€

For years, Vanek sponsored the TSOโ€™s classics series and never missed a concert, always taking a bow when TSO officials thanked her from the stage.

Until earlier this year, when her health took a turn, Vanek also was a regular presence at SASO concerts, sitting in the front row as Lerner conducted from the St. Andrewโ€™s Presbyterian Church stage, and had her regular seat for True Concord concerts at Grace St. Paulโ€™s near the University of Arizona.

She once said that her goal was to bring Tucsonโ€™s classical music community together and in 2018, she saw that happen when she donated $150,000 to the Tucson Desert Song Festival for its โ€œBernstein at 100โ€ festival.

โ€œThese groups have really brought the people out, and I am very, very pleased,โ€ Vanek told the Star at the time. โ€œI had hoped for that when I started this all 14, 15 years ago. It was my thought that somebody had to step in and really, really sponsorโ€ classical music in Tucson.


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Contact reporter Cathalena E. Burch at cburch@tucson.com or 573-4642. On Twitter @Starburch